The Honest Dating Profile
It's been over five weeks since the official separation. Of course, dating comes up in conversation. I also know damn well that I will find a bunch of familiar faces on the local hot spot dating website... and I would rather not, really. Sincerely. So, to soothe an itch, I decided to write out an honest dating profile. Like, what are my hard lines? What are my expectations?
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I am a hard working and intelligent yet shy woman. I have earned very well where I am in life and expect the same out of a partner. I am picky about who I have in my life because standards are sexy. I have my little family and you may as well. I am starting to get my business together. I want someone who has been there and knows how to be supportive or is in the works of doing their own shit. That's the thing, I want to be with someone who is cool with working on our lives and supporting each other throughout. I will not back-burner myself and I will never ask someone else to do that to themselves either. I wish for mutual growth and open conversations (online and in person).
Here is a list of do-not-bother-if:
- You drink. If this line bothers you, then walk away. If you own up to your drinking and have some drinks, then this statement shouldn't bother you, continue on.
- You do not have independence (financial, transportation, emotional). I work very, very hard to be independent in my life and expect the same out of you.
- If you've never stepped foot into a counsellor's office or you have not read books to help yourself. If you have not, this means you may not have dealt with your shit. I am not here to deal with yours. I am here to help you thrive and make an amazing life filled with both our dreams come true.
That is a fair beginning. Yea, let's start there. I selected that I am highly ambitious in my profile: this is no lie nor a dormant feeling. It's for real and active. Most people are scared of keeping up with me.; I cannot have that kind of fear in my life. I have a lot ambition and have been described as a bull getting through life once I get the right strategy and momentum. I have been told by exes more times than I'd like that I deserve a better man in my life. You know what, they're right. Does that better man exist? That is my challenge to the universe right now. If you have gotten this far, maybe you are him or you are simply curiously drawn into this odd profile?
I'll be honest, I am tender right now. Vulnerable. But that is okay. Because I am building something wonderful right now that I know is possible. I struggle with disabilities and chronic dilemmas. I have learned to find strength in overcoming them daily. I struggle with inner negativity a lot so I look at life constructively. I will happy rock any negative bullshit out of my life very quickly, so I recommend you add to the beautiful colours of life rather than focus on the black and whites of life. It truly is a beautiful life when seen through the right lens. I know what I add to life. What do you?
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Don't know if I would ever post this as dating websites aren't great experiences. However, with the right approach... anything is possible.
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I am a hard working and intelligent yet shy woman. I have earned very well where I am in life and expect the same out of a partner. I am picky about who I have in my life because standards are sexy. I have my little family and you may as well. I am starting to get my business together. I want someone who has been there and knows how to be supportive or is in the works of doing their own shit. That's the thing, I want to be with someone who is cool with working on our lives and supporting each other throughout. I will not back-burner myself and I will never ask someone else to do that to themselves either. I wish for mutual growth and open conversations (online and in person).
Here is a list of do-not-bother-if:
- You drink. If this line bothers you, then walk away. If you own up to your drinking and have some drinks, then this statement shouldn't bother you, continue on.
- You do not have independence (financial, transportation, emotional). I work very, very hard to be independent in my life and expect the same out of you.
- If you've never stepped foot into a counsellor's office or you have not read books to help yourself. If you have not, this means you may not have dealt with your shit. I am not here to deal with yours. I am here to help you thrive and make an amazing life filled with both our dreams come true.
That is a fair beginning. Yea, let's start there. I selected that I am highly ambitious in my profile: this is no lie nor a dormant feeling. It's for real and active. Most people are scared of keeping up with me.; I cannot have that kind of fear in my life. I have a lot ambition and have been described as a bull getting through life once I get the right strategy and momentum. I have been told by exes more times than I'd like that I deserve a better man in my life. You know what, they're right. Does that better man exist? That is my challenge to the universe right now. If you have gotten this far, maybe you are him or you are simply curiously drawn into this odd profile?
I'll be honest, I am tender right now. Vulnerable. But that is okay. Because I am building something wonderful right now that I know is possible. I struggle with disabilities and chronic dilemmas. I have learned to find strength in overcoming them daily. I struggle with inner negativity a lot so I look at life constructively. I will happy rock any negative bullshit out of my life very quickly, so I recommend you add to the beautiful colours of life rather than focus on the black and whites of life. It truly is a beautiful life when seen through the right lens. I know what I add to life. What do you?
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Don't know if I would ever post this as dating websites aren't great experiences. However, with the right approach... anything is possible.
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